How important is sex for a fulfilling love relationship?

The love of your relationship and how escort can help

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When lust is not (anymore) in harmony in the love relationship, many questions arise. Some clients come to her because their partner is more frequent sex wants to be herself — and burdens the imbalance. Others report relationships in which physical closeness barely takes place after decades. Still others only feel a vague discomfort in their sexuality — without knowing where it comes from or what is missing.

Jana Förster, sex counselor from Schöneiche near Berlin, has accompanied over 200 couples and individuals in recent years. Her sessions are about longings, insecurities and the art of keeping sexuality alive — even in long-lasting relationships.
And time and again, a central question is raised:
How much sex does love really need — and when does too little become a problem?

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What does the research say — and what is the reality of sex life?

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Let's start with the latest scientific findings:
A research team from the University of Toronto has evaluated three extensive individual studies with a total of over 30,000 participants. The surprisingly clear result: The ideal frequency for a satisfied Sex life in relationships Is at once a week.
Couples who sleep together about once a week reported a particularly high level of satisfaction. If sex was reported less frequently, relationship satisfaction fell — more frequent sex brought the opposite no further positive effect.

But what does it look like in reality?

According to a representative survey by the online portal ElitePartner Sleep though 19 percent of couples together once a week, more 24 percent even several times.
But almost a quarter — 24 percent — only twice a month or less. And round 10 percent of respondents stated that they no longer had sex at all.

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“We consciously make time for each other every two weeks”

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Lisa (35), office clerk, and Marc (37), electrician, have been a couple for over eight years.
“For the first few months of our relationship, we had sex almost every day,” says Marc.
“But after the birth of our first child, it suddenly became much rarer — only every six to eight weeks. When our daughter was born later, our love life came to an almost complete standstill. ”

Today, the two make a conscious effort to regularly take time together as a couple — and not just see themselves as parents.

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The lull in bed began to put a heavy strain on the relationship:
“We were just parents, but not a real couple anymore — and suddenly we were constantly arguing about little things,” says Lisa.
“I particularly missed closeness — cuddles, intimate conversations, the exchange of our wishes and longings. ”

In a consultation with sex counselor Jana Förster, the two developed a clear strategy.

For the past four months, their children have been spending every other weekend with their grandparents.
“These breaks belong entirely to us — and yes, to sex again, of course,” says Lisa.
Marc adds: “We're sleeping together more regularly again. Not as often as before, but the anticipation and this particular tension often makes it feel much more intense. ”

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“I suddenly feel completely new types of pleasure”

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Claudia (53), an accountant, is in the middle of menopause. She also takes medication for high blood pressure and sleep disorders.
“We used to have sex two to four times a month,” she says. “But since menopause, I hardly have cravings anymore — and when it happens, it often hurts. ”

Her husband is very understanding of this, she points out. “Yet it tears me apart to constantly reject him. We tried a lot of things — even hormonal patches — but nothing really worked. ”

In the practice of sex counselor Jana Förster, the couple finally discovered new approaches to intimacy.
“We tried out erotic massages and dabbled in tantra,” says Claudia.
“In doing so, my body experiences completely new, sensual sensations — without the pressure of having to reach an orgasm. ”
She gives her husband tenderness in a different way: “I often prepare a climax for him by hand or orally — that is important for him, and for me it is nice to give without being under pressure myself. ”

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When closeness is missing: How an escort date can create new sexuality

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For many people, pleasure and closeness change over the years — as a result of everyday life, physical changes or deeper phases of life such as menopause. Desire decreases, uncertainties grow — and there is often a gap between need and reality that seems difficult to bridge.

Here, a stylish escort date can be more than just a physical encounter. It can open new doors — to a relaxed, pressure-free space in which sensuality, tenderness and communication can be experienced again.

An experienced, sensitive escort lady attends carefully to your pace and wishes. She doesn't judge, she doesn't demand — she accompanies. With sensitivity, charm and a natural presence, she helps you rediscover your own body, build trust and feel the joy of being close again.

Especially for people who have lived in fixed structures for a long time or experience emotional distance in a partnership, such an experience can have a healing effect. Not as a substitute — but as an addition. As a moment to pause. As an invitation to meet yourself sensually again.

An escort date with My Divine It therefore means:
Not just touch on the skin — but also the feeling of being really seen and respected.

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